As kids, we were unafraid to dream big. Minus the social awkwardness of the teenage years, we generally weren’t swayed by other people’s expectations of us or their perceptions of our dreams. For some odd reason, the older we get, the more susceptible we are to being influenced by society’s expectations of us. Somewhere along the way, we seem to subdue our dreams, become more reserved in our ambition, and guarded against judgment from others.
Failures can knock us down, make us lose confidence in ourselves and can threaten to prevent us from trying again. When I was in pilot training, I failed one of my earliest checkrides (an important “flying test”). I encountered a plethora of maintenance problems when I went to start the jet, which was frustrating. But, once in the air, I flew pretty darn well. However, once on the ground, the instructor informed me I had failed the checkride.
January starts with fresh ambition, but by February, the real challenge sets in: staying the course. Resolutions fade, motivation dips, and adversity tests our commitment. This is where resilience makes...
Nicole Malachowski |
What if I told you that the key to true success isn't found in grand achievements or big moments—but in the quiet, consistent steps you take every day? As someone...
Nicole Malachowski |
Whether you’re flying a million-dollar jet, providing medical care, or running a business, getting too comfortable and letting your guard down can lead to devastating consequences. Throughout my years as...
Nicole Malachowski |
Every November, Americans anticipate the Thanksgiving holiday at the end of the month. They consider all their reasons for being thankful. Of course, genuinely thankful people tend to count their...
Nicole Malachowski |
I learned a lot about how to lead during my time as a US Air Force officer and aviator, as well as in my post-military life as I have battled...
Nicole Malachowski |
Great leaders don’t focus on their individual power and authority. They understand their role is one of empowerment. They know that to serve and empower those around them, they must...
Nicole Malachowski |
Character is not fixed; it is a set of qualities that can be developed and strengthened over time. As a leader, knowing this key fact can help you build your...
Nicole Malachowski |
Time is a precious commodity. In today’s world, practicing effective time management is often the key to success. Learning the art of time management can transform your personal and professional...
Nicole Malachowski |
Setting goals with a positive mindset is essential for personal and professional growth. What is a positive mindset? It is an optimistic and constructive way of thinking that focuses on...
Nicole Malachowski |
A role model can influence and motivate you to become the best version of yourself. Maybe it’s your boss who supports you when you offer innovative ideas to solve problems…maybe...
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May is National Lyme Disease Awareness Month. This month is dedicated to improving awareness of Lyme and preventing the disease. Lyme disease is the most common and fastest-growing infectious disease...
Nicole Malachowski |
From the time I was a child, I always knew I would fly. I started flying lessons when I was twelve years old, soloed at sixteen years old, was on...
Nicole Malachowski |